post ini specially untok lala. lala, this is for u.
sorry eh my picture sesat pat sini :)
okays
dearest.
althou ure just one of those bloghoppers, i really2 wish i cud help u.
this post is dedicated specially for u.
i wanted to reply u at e tagboard but i find dat thers so many things for me to say.
hopefully,
after reading this ull change yr mindset.
plz b happy dearest.
u often tag at my blog, saying dat my situation is similar to yrs. except that ive found sumone else... i noe its not easy to forget dat special sumone of yrs. but dearest, if i cud move on no matter how hard it was, no matter wat shits ive gone thru, y cant u?
u told me dat i deserve to b happy w nasri. to me, evryone deserves to b happy. n yr happines lies in yr own hands. u noe, yr life is always a journey. it will take u anywher U yrself choose to go.. u must b strong to overcome this situation. i noe, its easy said. but if u did go thru shits wen u were w yr ex, just put them aside for once. wateva uve gone thru is called life. ull always GO THRU E PAIN TO EXPERIENCE THE JOY.
so this pain that ure going thru is for u to realize, n tell yrself dat ure not gonna REPEAT it in future. its best for u to go thru all these during yr maturing years rather den experiencing it later on in future. dearest, for e sake of yr own happiness. forget bout him. no point looking back coz he'll just tink dat ure weak enuff n u cant live yr life without him. later he besar kepale u noe. u hav to prove to him, u can b happy WITHOUT HIM. seriously, i dun wanna c anyone dwelling abt their past relationships. ive been thru this b4 n i noe how it feels.
like ive said, thers alot of guys out ther, u just have to PICK E RIGHT ONE THIS TIME. plz dearest, b happy. b happy for yrself. n ill b happy for u. no point u noe, u maseh kip him in yr heart, wen he himself out ther tenga enjoying himself, doin his own stuffs, happy w his life now. does he noes dat ure crying for him in e first place? klau dia tau pun dia care tak?
for e very last time, sit back n think wher yr relationship go wrong. if its u, den dun repeat e same mistakes in future. but if its him yg bersalah, just walk away beb. it takes two hands to clap u c, u cant b stucked rite here kan. move on girl, move on. its hard i noe, but its for yr own good.
love kinda ruin my life too. i was blinded by love. wen my ex left me, i dunno y but i felt dat ive lost evrything. evrything. that was wen i neglect my studies n kip on thinking n crying over him.in e end, i failed my o's n bla bla bla. but this time round, i felt it was time, for me to jus leave. mayb our jodoh memang setakat sini aje. n kite tak boleh lawan takdir. no matter how much he means to u, klau dah ditakdirkan dat ure gonna b w sumonelse, u hav to xcept it w open heart n without regrets. trust me dear, there will b ppl out ther hu cud love u more n appreciate u den dat ex of yrs.
now its all up to u. think abt it. yr past will forever b yr past. heed my advice, dun wait for him. he dont deserve yr love at all. seriously. just b strong dearest. b strong alrite. if i can do it y cant u. nobody noes wat ive gone thru. n same goes to u. i dunno wat uve gone thru, but in tis situation u shud just forget bout dat guy.
its not e end of e world yet. just sit back n think. do u deserve all this. if not move on okay!
buat bende yg berfaedah to forget him. go out w yr friends more often, delete all his pictures n Messages if u still hav them w u. do it dearest. dont listen to lagu2 sedih. itu conferm teringat pasal dia punye. if u walk pass e places u went w him, just dun bother bout it. memories will always remain as it is. but, u hav to move on. tell yrself dat 'okay, he's not e one for me' dun put on any hopes on him lagik! tau tau tau!! haha.
please dearest. i wanna c u smile :)
its easy to hate sumone. but u dun hav to hate him no matter how much it hurts.
wat goes around comes around...
he'll noe how it feels to b left by e ones u love, one day. just wait n c :)
seriously,evrythings up to u. u have to choose e right path to b happy n to move on.
allah is always ther to help u. doa sajelah. mintak dia bantu awak untuk ke jalan yang lurus. setiap doa atau bende yang kite inginkan, allah maha mengetahui, dan mendengar.
if u doakan untok bende yg betul, insya-allah DIA akan bantu awak.
i was once weak, i didnt noe hu to turn to, n at dat point of time, i noe dat only allah cud help me, evry day without fail, i cried, i let my whole heart out after prayers telling DIA to just show me n guide me to e right path.
alhamdullilah.
it happened.
i noe its a long post. just b happy for yrself.
n for me too my friend :)
❤lots of love,❤
SITI NAMIRAH BTE ABDUL RAHIM
U, LOVE.
